Life/ Trust

One thing I have learnt about life is that “Life is about give and take”. That is, you have to give something before you can receive something. Life has taught me lots of lessons, I have experienced life. In this world, the only person you can trust is yourself and God. Your parents can betray you, also your family members can betray you, even your friends can betray you. The only person that can’t betray you is God and yourself. Am not saying you shouldn’t trust your parents, family or friends. All am saying is that we shouldn’t put all our trust on people incase of betrayal, so that we wouldn’t feel so hurt and disappointed. 

Before we jump into conclusions let us investigate the matter well, don’t believe the evidence given. Get your evidence. Sometimes it’s not all we see/hear that are real. Let’s not all be judgmental all the time. “I just heard my friend killed someone” or I just heard that my friend and my boyfriend are in a relationship “ , “I just heard my boyfriend is cheating on me”.

The question is did you catch them yourself? Evidence can easily be faked especially from those who have high connections. So please without you catching someone doing a wrongful act don’t judge them nor jump into conclusions easily.

Life is simple especially if you know how to play your cards well. Life is short so always try to smile, irrespective of the situation of the country. Be happy always because we only have one life.

Don’t be carried away by the things of this world. Remember everything is vanity. Live a fruitful life, a life that would be remembered till eternity even after your death. Always try to help, because someone you help today can turn out to be your helper in the future. 

Take for example, I know one Man, Mr Johnson,he was very rich during his 30s, he is currently in this 50s. He was always good to his employees. He helped one of his employee, David , David was 16, Mr Johnson sent David to school from High school to University. David had to leave the company to concentrate on his studies. Few years later, Mr Johnson got bankrupt, he asked for help but no one could help him, he went from grace to grass. So after 15 years, as Mr Johnson was washing cars for People ( he did lots of low class jobs), suddenly he got to a Young guys car, guess who he was? Yes it’s who you thinking of, David. David recognized Mr Johnson and got out of his Car. “Mr Johnson, what happened to you? How did you become like this”. Mr Johnson couldn’t recognize David. “Sorry who are you “ said Mr Johnson.

‘It’s me David Adegbero who you sponsored to school, but Sir why are you in this mess, a nice man like you isn’t supposed to go through this suffering like this ~ David ‘

‘Wow that little boy of then is now all grown up. Well dear I went through bankruptcy and do you believe every one who I trusted even my best friends couldn’t help me. It was that bad ~ Mr Johnson ‘

Well that’s life for you Sir, you know what Sir let me don’t disturb you at your place of work. Here’s my business card, you can call me and let’s talk 

To cut all the story short David helped Mr Johnson to start a business and Mr Johnson never experienced any money loss.

Let’s be good and help One another, because we don’t know the future. When doing and saying things we should always think about the repercussions it would bring in the future. Karma would always play it’s part.